I'm looking for some online minecraft buddies, as i have a couple of really good maps, but no one to play them with!

I'm also looking for servers to play on
I'm not a griefer (too nice) i'm just looking for a place to hang out with some minecraft friends
I'd prefer if there weren't too many people, but i'll take busy servers as well.
Also i'd prefer servers that weren't totally based of PvP, some is fine but i don't want to just be wandering around and someone kill me for no reason!